I'm a bit astonished at the fact your friends chimed in to diminish you. As a guy I'll never understand how undermining women are to women. I see nothing wrong with you in the photo, aside the face-muting.
I'd imagine friends would like, already know how your chest-game is. I really don't get how and why they commented to diminish you. Sad stuff on how those who are the closest to you hurt your the most.